Regarding Lesbians
Jul. 26th, 2009 06:58 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I work at a hardware store. Naturally, this means I get to meet quite a few lesbians and very few gayboys. ^^; Although there was this one pair that I'm pretty sure was...
Anyway, today I saw three lesbian couples, one of them I found to my surprise contained a lady I work with. She introduced me to "her sweetheart", Sandy. It was so cute. <3 They were picking out yard lights. ^_^
What continues to baffle me, though, is one of the other pairs I saw. I really, really don't understand why some lesbians choose to look like boys. I thought she was a boy until she said something. @_@ I mean, the point of being a lesbian is that you like girls... so, er, why would you want to look like a boy? Unless your partner was bi, I guess? Best of both worlds or something?
And I don't mean casual wear either, cause girls can wear casual/grunge/grubbies and still look like girls. No, this was men's haircut, men's shirt, men's pants, may-as-well-have-been-a-man.
*still baffled*
Anyway, today I saw three lesbian couples, one of them I found to my surprise contained a lady I work with. She introduced me to "her sweetheart", Sandy. It was so cute. <3 They were picking out yard lights. ^_^
What continues to baffle me, though, is one of the other pairs I saw. I really, really don't understand why some lesbians choose to look like boys. I thought she was a boy until she said something. @_@ I mean, the point of being a lesbian is that you like girls... so, er, why would you want to look like a boy? Unless your partner was bi, I guess? Best of both worlds or something?
And I don't mean casual wear either, cause girls can wear casual/grunge/grubbies and still look like girls. No, this was men's haircut, men's shirt, men's pants, may-as-well-have-been-a-man.
*still baffled*
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Date: 2009-07-27 03:49 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2009-07-27 03:59 am (UTC)I have several men's shirts that are my favorite pieces of clothing because of how nice they are. (Soft, stretchy, just... comfortable as heck.)
And then again, I laugh in the face of 'Fashion'. ^^u
Who cares how it looks so long as it's not falling off and is comfy?
But I will also dress like a boy, because I want to show a more gender neutral image.
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Date: 2009-07-27 04:03 am (UTC)But I like to dress nice, because I am not overweight like 90% of society, so it's nice to give people something nice to look at rather than flab. ^^; Or that's the idea anyway. I'm oblivious enough that I never notice whether or not anyone notices me.
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Date: 2009-07-27 04:14 am (UTC)I got nothing else.
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Date: 2009-07-27 12:28 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2009-07-28 03:46 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2009-08-21 04:09 am (UTC)And my brother only wears Dior, Givenchy, and Alexander Mcqueen... though he will occasionally dip into other brands like Balenciaga and Lanvin.